Saturday, June 26, 2010

Hello, Dolly!

Don't fall out of your seats, either of you who still check this blog. It really is a new post. With a new look.

When I last posted, I didn't know if maternity leave would give me more or less time for posting. Apparently it was the latter. Sorry.

There really wasn't much to report, though. I barely got spanked, barely sassed, barely had room in my brain for spankings, sex, or other fun things from my previous, pre-baby life. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE motherhood. It just...shifts things a little. The lack of sleep, the hormones, the fun side effects of surgery: they all collaborate to make spanking, sex, and fun a little less..well, fun.

In the last two weeks, however, I have been relieved to discover that I haven't lost those parts of me. They're not always accessible or convenient, but they're starting to re-emerge. M has spanked me a couple times. And I got a beautiful, intense, heavy, hour-long spanking when I went to visit some good friends this past week. Canes, hands, straps, floggers, the works. It's prideful, I know, but I'm also relieved that my tolerance hasn't gone away for good. I can still take a hell of a spanking. And quite frankly, I need it.

There are lots of posts about motherhood, spanking, my identity, and other things swirling around in my brain. I can't promise to post them soon, but hope they'll emerge over time.

In the meantime, it's just nice to have my brain and kink back where they belong.

7 comments:

indy said...

Nice to see you again, Iris, and glad you're getting enough sleep to feel up to playing again. I like the new look!

Iris said...

Hi Indy! You're so faithful--thank you. :-)

Student Discipline said...

Really, really glad to read this; both to know that you're loving motherhood and also to hear that sex and kink and fun hasn't died a *complete* death :-)

Hermione said...

Glad to see you back. We haven't given up on your blog!

Hugs,
Hermione

Serenity Everton said...

I SO totally forgot about your chance to play! You told me about it at dinner last month but (as I had to explain to Chris when I asked him about this) I was, um, a little bit drunk there at the beginning.

I really don't remember much of our time at the restaurant. :(

Hugs,
s

Dr. Ken said...

Welcome back, Iris, and congratulations on the new addition to the family! It all takes a lot of adapting, but I know you'll work it all out eventually and find a nice balance.

As for your posts--post when you can, and don't hold yourself to any schedule. You've got quite enough on your hands at the moment.

And yes, you need a good spanking!
:-)

Dr. Ken

Raven said...

Just wandered over here to see how the transition to parenthood has gone..in the midst of kink et all. Blessings to your family! :)

Raven