Saturday, June 26, 2010

Hello, Dolly!

Don't fall out of your seats, either of you who still check this blog. It really is a new post. With a new look.

When I last posted, I didn't know if maternity leave would give me more or less time for posting. Apparently it was the latter. Sorry.

There really wasn't much to report, though. I barely got spanked, barely sassed, barely had room in my brain for spankings, sex, or other fun things from my previous, pre-baby life. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE motherhood. It just...shifts things a little. The lack of sleep, the hormones, the fun side effects of surgery: they all collaborate to make spanking, sex, and fun a little less..well, fun.

In the last two weeks, however, I have been relieved to discover that I haven't lost those parts of me. They're not always accessible or convenient, but they're starting to re-emerge. M has spanked me a couple times. And I got a beautiful, intense, heavy, hour-long spanking when I went to visit some good friends this past week. Canes, hands, straps, floggers, the works. It's prideful, I know, but I'm also relieved that my tolerance hasn't gone away for good. I can still take a hell of a spanking. And quite frankly, I need it.

There are lots of posts about motherhood, spanking, my identity, and other things swirling around in my brain. I can't promise to post them soon, but hope they'll emerge over time.

In the meantime, it's just nice to have my brain and kink back where they belong.


indy said...

Nice to see you again, Iris, and glad you're getting enough sleep to feel up to playing again. I like the new look!

Iris said...

Hi Indy! You're so faithful--thank you. :-)

Student Discipline said...

Really, really glad to read this; both to know that you're loving motherhood and also to hear that sex and kink and fun hasn't died a *complete* death :-)

Hermione said...

Glad to see you back. We haven't given up on your blog!


Serenity Everton said...

I SO totally forgot about your chance to play! You told me about it at dinner last month but (as I had to explain to Chris when I asked him about this) I was, um, a little bit drunk there at the beginning.

I really don't remember much of our time at the restaurant. :(


Dr. Ken said...

Welcome back, Iris, and congratulations on the new addition to the family! It all takes a lot of adapting, but I know you'll work it all out eventually and find a nice balance.

As for your posts--post when you can, and don't hold yourself to any schedule. You've got quite enough on your hands at the moment.

And yes, you need a good spanking!

Dr. Ken

Raven said...

Just wandered over here to see how the transition to parenthood has the midst of kink et all. Blessings to your family! :)